[Improve] Use Spark's Logging instead of explicit usage of log4j

[bowenliang123]

Proposed changes

• to prevent explicit use of log4j, use Spark's Logging instead
• Support Spark 3.3.0
  Removed log4j 1.x, and uses Spark's Logging trait, which uses log4j 2.x in Sprak 3.3.0. For older Spark versions , this change does not break the compability. Code changes are in ScalaValueReader.scala

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[bowenliang123]

Inspired and cherry-picked from #57 .

cc @JNSimba

[JNSimba]

LGTM

[JNSimba]

LGTM