[feature]support group commit

[vinlee19]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem Summary:

suppport stream load with group commit mode
Describe the overview of changes.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior: (Yes/No/I Don't know)
2. Has unit tests been added: (Yes/No/No Need)
3. Has document been added or modified: (Yes/No/No Need)
4. Does it need to update dependencies: (Yes/No)
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back: (Yes/No)

Further comments

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[gnehil]

It is necessary to check the configuration conflicts between group commit and two-phase commit and partial column update.

[vinlee19]

It is necessary to check the configuration conflicts between group commit and two-phase commit and partial column update.

done

[gnehil]

LGTM

[JNSimba]

LGTM