chore(go): bump to arrow-go v18 #3672

Job	Run time
clang-tidy	7m 49s
Common Libraries (Conda/macos-13)	7m 31s
Common Libraries (Conda/macos-latest)	2m 41s
Meson - C/C++ (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	23m 35s
Common Libraries (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	2m 56s
C/C++ (Conda/macos-13)	4m 23s
C/C++ (Conda/macos-latest)	2m 38s
C/C++ (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	2m 14s
Go (No CGO) (macos-13)	6m 31s
Go (No CGO) (macos-latest)	3m 48s
Go (No CGO) (ubuntu-latest)	3m 18s
Go (No CGO) (windows-latest)	6m 1s
GLib/Ruby (Conda/macos-13)	8m 24s
Go (CGO) (Conda/macos-13)	6m 44s
Documentation 3.12 (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	8m 32s
GLib/Ruby (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	4m 16s
Go (CGO) (Conda/macos-latest)	3m 17s
Python 3.9 (Conda/macos-13)	9m 25s
Go (CGO) (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	3m 52s
Python 3.12 (Conda/macos-13)	6m 22s
Python 3.9 (Conda/macos-latest)	4m 13s
Python 3.12 (Conda/macos-latest)	5m 12s
Python 3.9 (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	3m 41s
Python 3.12 (Conda/ubuntu-latest)	3m 45s
	2h 21m 8s

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